Friday, December 13, 2013

Slut-Shaming in BC Schools



           Canadian women now account for 50.4% of the population according to Statistics Canada (2011). One could say that this makes the population equal. Like men, women can now attend university, work in a variety of fields, and contribute to the paying of household bills. Unlike men, women are still expected to take care of the household chores, stay "in shape", and take care of the children. Most of these unrealistic expectations stem from the multitude of stereotypes that flood the media; however, some of them are subtly perpetuated through practices in our very own education system. Public schools in British Columbia contribute to the oppression of the female gender in many ways, however, the most pressing problem is the continual implementation of sexist dress code policies.
          
       Dress codes have long been a popular debate. Most people question whether or not dress codes diminish students' ability to express themselves through their dress and/or whether or not students can afford a uniform or expected dress attire. What is not discussed, however, is how these dress codes implicitly target the female population of schools. Most schools have a policy similar to this: "Articles of clothing which expose the body in a sexually suggestive manner as commonly understood by the students, staff and parents having recognized generational differences are not acceptable in school" (Timberline Secondary). Other schools provide explicit examples as to what is inappropriate clothing, such as: "No skirts or shorts which fall above mid-thigh high; No low tops which reveal cleavage; no offensive, discriminatory attire or attire (including cosmetics and jeweller) which may intimidate or make others feel uncomfortable" (Lord Byng Secondary). All of these policies suggest that all offensive dressing occurs by the female gender and that the girls in these schools need to be told how to act while insinuating that, without these policies, little girls will dress in a sexually provocative manner. It is these policies that perpetuate sexuality as taboo, therefore, providing youth with the desire to rebel against them and to view girls who choose to dress in certain ways as "sluts" or "asking for it" because of what they wear.

            In some schools, dress code policies claim to be in effect to ensure a safe  and respectful learning environment for all students and staff. Surrey, for example, states that the dress code is in place "to balance individual liberty, social convention, functionality, community standards and school community values" (School District #36). What message does this send to the girls in our classrooms? In order to be safe and respected as an individual, one cannot dress in a way that is deemed too sexually suggestive by society. But, this message completely contradicts everything that they are being told by the society that they see every day outside of the classroom: music videos, magazines, billboards, or any other advertisement medium. This further contributes to the culture of slut-shaming: by wearing a skirt that was 3 inches above her knee cap, a girl would be considered as going against appropriate community standards, therefore, she should accept the consequences for this way of dress in whatever form that happens to come in. This type of culture has snow-balled into an even bigger problem: victim-blaming.

            If our schools continue to perpetuate this culture, girls will never be able to see themselves as more than objects to be dressed up or down by others. Instead of telling girls what is appropriate, what will or will not cause one to be sexually harassed, policy makers need to focus on the education of all students in regards to sexual exploitation and objectification. Until schools stop targeting girls as manifestations of sexuality and start empowering them to focus on things more important than how much of their navel was showing while running track, girls will continue to see themselves, and other girls, as just that - objects. 




Ashley Slade

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Creating Christmas... a little poem




Cutting cursive jots the page;
These scribbles transcribe our emotions. 
An s and an m, and an i and an l and an E create a SMILE from me
 to you.
But little do you
 know that I write this 
with a straight face, fixated on a screen,
fostering only thoughts of creativity and rhythm. 
The power of the pen has evolved. 
Now - the keyboard controls the calling. 
Nine buttons later I not only write the word, but concisely create Christmas.

Friday, December 6, 2013

A Reflection


My last post gave readers an example of a creative writing prompt. For me, this prompt is part of a final assignment for one of my Education Program courses. The point of this activity was to publish a piece of writing that was created from a writing prompt that was part of a previous assignment.

When I created the prompt in the first place, it was based on an article about misunderstandings between speakers of different languages; I then went with the theme of misunderstandings or confusion. This part, however, is not necessary for doing a freewrite; however, determining a theme for freewriting can be beneficial if you know that you will be writing on a certain topic for a later assignment.



I really enjoyed doing this prompt. I loved the constraint of having to use 5 words from my freewrite into my representation (poem). I liked the challenge of having to figure out where to put my words in order to serve a purpose and create a theme. By the time I got to the end, though, I realized I had forgotten to include one of the words, so I had to go back and change the poem to include it.

I would've liked to have done a piece of art as the representational product for this prompt, or even present a dramatic representation not of my freewrite but of my response poem. So perhaps that could be an extension to this assignment: presentations to the class (could be done as a reading or representation?) or maybe even make it optional for bonus marks. 

I would like to thank everyone who commented on my previous post, for contributing to my end of term assignment. I enjoyed reading your opinions and hope to write another post that will provide more opportunities for you to connect with the material.


Yours in educational pursuits,



Ashley

Monday, December 2, 2013

A Little Creative Writing Prompt for the Holidays

I am currently taking a course on creative writing. One of  the requirements of this course is to generate ten creative writing prompts and attempt them ourselves: one of these prompt must be published. So, dear readers, I ask you to indulge my professor by reading this prompt and my attempt at it. 

Luckily, if you like themes, the writing that ended up coming out of this prompt revolves around consumerism vs. the holidays - how appropriate with the Winter Holidays just around the corner.

 
... sipping his Starbucks slowly.
 
So, here is my prompt and the results:
 
Prompt: Pick 5 key words from a freewriting entry that pertains to the theme of misunderstanding. Then create either a poem (16-20 lines), (non)fictional story (1-2 pages), or representational item (painting, short drama - 1 minute or less, photo etc.) based on the emotions evoked in the freewrite and includes the 5 chosen words.
  

Example: Key words from freewrite: embarrassing, radical, angry, culture, flaws

I asked him:
How could you not think your birthday is important?
It's just another day full of false well wishes
By radical enthusiasts of cake and candy.

I couldn't help but get angry because
of his nonchalant accusations that all
I wanted was cake. He points out the
materialistic culture of holidays and

states that my enthusiasm is embarrassing.
Meanwhile, he sips on his Starbucks latte,
Perpetuating the poverty of a people
Miles away from home.

I guess it's out of sight out of mind for him.
And I continue to be sucked into the flaw
that is the celebration of making it this far
in the time frame we call life and he sits
alone                  sipping his Starbucks slowly.


Your freewrite could be anything: it doesn't necessarily have to be theme based. For me, it was theme based because I had based it off of an article I had read just prior to creating the prompt about cultural misunderstandings.This writing prompt could be used just for fun, or (if you are a teacher) to check your students' comprehension of vocabulary or course themes/content. 

I hope you enjoyed this article, or at least the little poem. I am so excited for the holidays! Down with scrooge!

But, hey, it's not about my opinion... what's yours? Do you think the Winter Holidays, birthdays, or other holidays are strictly kept around for consumer/business purposes? What do your families do for holidays or special occasions? Leave a comment!




Best Wishes,



Ashley